The 3rd aspect of Soul Intelligence is Owning Your Destiny. Your well being comes from deep within, your Higher Self, not based on recent experiences in life.
See yourself as the HERO, and write your own valiant tale of beauty & truth, and find your strength.
We no longer have to be the betrayed lover, the wronged co-worker. We can write a new and better story where we are the one who had the courage to overcome all obstacles to a beautiful ending where we faced our challenges and came out stronger and more powerful.
We cling to our old stories because there is some sort of payoff for us. Usually it is that we are able to remain the “star” of an ongoing drama. Clinging to our stories gives us a false sense of security. But clinging to our stories is a roadblock for us embracing our destiny.
The characters in your story represent FEAR, “False Evidence Appearing Real”
Have the courage to face your FEARS, and rewrite your story with courage and conviction. All it takes is the first step, and the universe will help you on your way.